Since its launch at Harvard University in 2004, Facebook’s memebership has swollen to over 250 million people in 170 countries and territories, beating out MySpace (with 125 million users), LinkedIn (a site for professionals), and Twitter.
The millions of social-network users are engaged in the largest experiment in social interaction ever conducted, says David Disalvo of Scientific American Mind (Jan/Feb 2010).
Social networks are an amazing way to meet and form meaningful relationships with people of like minds. Some networks work better at this than others. In fact, Facebook is a network that works best for people who already know each other. I don’t find it a good place to meet a stranger, per se, because it isn’t focused enough and doesn’t provide adequate filters. It’s like meeting someone at the local bar—without the benefit of having a drink! Now, where’s the fun in that? I’d much rather meet that person face-to-face, where all my senses are able to exercise themselves. That’s what I like about the blogging communities: everyone there is a blogger like me and I can go to their blog to find out an awful lot about whether they’re interesting and worth me sharing an online relationship with. My son belongs to a social network devoted to skiing. Of course, it isn’t just a sport; it’s a sub-culture. And that social network has allowed him to find a group of cool friends who share his passion, and speak the same language.
Social networking has freed us of the fetters and limitations of geography. It doesn’t matter anymore what side of the river you live on, or what you look like. What’s important is your mind and your heart. Social networks provide an even playing ground for minds to interact. I know of several people who formed a relationship online through a social network and have gone on to meet in person and become great friends.
So, Margaret… What are you waiting for?...
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9 comments:
Hahahahaha!
I am waiting for hell to freeze over! Hahahahaha
Honestly, I couldn't afford the time that is required to keep up with Facebook, or should I say I would rather do other things with my time!
I love to socialize face-to-face and can manage to keep up with the few people that I do correspond with electronically via email, google chat and the occassional blog post.
Life in the flesh is complicated enough without a lot of extra electronic threads to keep track of...!
For now...Facebook is not on my list of things to do....and last I heard, hell is still pretty hot!
Hahahahaha
Baby Brie
Ooh... ooh.... :)
Well, Margaret, with climate change warming up the Poles, I think you'll be waiting a long time, indeed!
Meantime, I keep hearing the word Facebook in the pubs I eat in and see young and old checking their iphones or other devices for Facebook news... It is indeed one giant experiment in social interaction...
Meantime, I guess I'll be talking to you on the phone or google-chat, Margaret... :)
Yesterday, I finally dipped my toes into the water of the Facebook social experiment and set up a page...
I guess I fall right into the parameters of the biggest social experiment, and coming in late in the game puts me right into the largest part of the bell curve!
The reason I did this is that I have been researching the marketing aspect of the internet (I recently set up my artwork on a group printing site for artists) and I've found out that Facebook is the recommended arena to bring traffic to any secondary marketing URL.
I have yet to investigate all the aspects of Facebook that provide this type of linking, but since the data overwhelming supports it as a major tool for SEO, I can hardly see how Facebook could be dismissed as a social networking phenomenom.
I started to facebook lately and it is fun. However, you do have to think about whom you want to invite into your private sphere; family photos and all. Maybe it's a good idea to have more than one account.
Yes, TMY, I've heard (and experienced) what you speak of (we need to chat about this over a coffee...soon... :)
Princess, you speak wisely, as usual... more than one account with different levels of privacy based on intent and usage. Very wise, indeed...
There can't be many who aren't in Facebook. I think all my office is! It's a great way of keeping in touich, be they a mile away or the other side of the world.
Yes, Jean-Luc, young and old are on Facebook. I hear its name uttered in every crowd I'm in--okay, in the bars...
:)
Limberger, thanks for your diatribe. :) You give some great advice, especially near the end. The key to any tool's success is linking its utility to the motives of its user. However, as you mentioned, it is best to understand both its potential and its limitations. In the case of Facebook, which is a communication/social networking tool,the risks are associated with the very same things that make it attractive to users. It is open to anyone and almost anything. Its nondiscriminatory platform is its very advantage and disadvantage. Like with anything complex. For instance, if you're a very private and extremely sensitive person then why on Earth would you be on Facebook and risk possible abuse? If, on the other hand your prime motive is exposure and you don't care if it generates good or bad publicity--so long as it is PUBLICITY--then go for the gusto and Facebook, Facebook, Facebook!
p.s., as for who's behind Toulouse's adventures... Well, I'm so glad you mentioned that little scamp! Being his trusty travel companion, I must lament that I am often "behind" him... chasing after him as he frolicks effortlessly up endless staircases or "loses" himself in a funky liquor store or fancy mall...
see these links for instance:
http://sfgirl-thealiennextdoor.blogspot.com/2009/11/somerset-collection-toulouse-gets-lost.html
http://sfgirl-thealiennextdoor.blogspot.com/2008/07/america-youre-beautifulpart-2.html
He even got his own blog! Here: http://www.toulouseletrek.com. Go check it out and bug him with comments! :-D
Oh... speaking of Facebook, Toulouse is also on Facebook (and last I checked, I think he has more friends than I do! LOL! ... Go figure... He's French): http://www.facebook.com/people/Toulouse-LeTrek/100000202794755
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